How to becomme better human being ?

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unfortunatly:

In nature a repulsive caterpillar turns into a lovely butterfly. But with humans it is the other way around: a lovely butterfly turns into a repulsive caterpillar. - A. Chekhov

and:

Man - a creature made at the end of the week's work when God was tired. M. Twain

finally:

That in man which cannot be domesticated is not his evil but his goodness. A. Porchia

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Rena, thank you ver very much for this link. I didnt know my self asteam was that bad. That site was enlightning and helpful. I found out i was a wuzz pointing mine thorns out. Afraid to be hurt emotional and bla bla Big grin

i was just moments away from reaching the razor blade. /: (

You know when its psyen (:

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Rena, thank you ver very much for this link. I didnt know my self asteam was that bad. That site was enlightning and helpful. I found out i was a wuzz pointing mine thorns out. Afraid to be hurt emotional and bla bla Big grin

i was just moments away from reaching the razor blade. /: (


Arrow Did you find that site helpfull ? You have there alost quiz questions to determine your self. Highly recommended to anyone who have any problem social type. And can help to change yourself... "Changing people is impossible !" If you wanna change somone, ONLY WAY to change that person is to change yourself, then that person will becomme better..." It works :!: I try it and really works :!:
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RENA * BBSQUAD wrote:



Arrow Did you find that site helpfull ? You have there alost quiz questions to determine your self. Highly recommended to anyone who have any problem social type. And can help to change yourself... "Changing people is impossible !" If you wanna change somone, ONLY WAY to change that person is to change yourself, then that person will becomme better..." It works :!: I try it and really works :!:
Best regards

yes indeed, it was enlightning as i mentioned before. I want to be a better human being. Without any racials issues, prejudice, and stuff like that..
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ok now i read all articles, and WoOw. I actually learned something. Big grin. Very very intresting indeed. It boosted my empathy - level to 6 out 10.. ehm before it was like 2-4 :oops:
Best regards n peace. :salute:

You know when its psyen (:

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What happened mate how you find this site? Big grin

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All human being sux. Well i have just a thought in my mind. Let me share with u Tongue
Here are a lot different ppl from dfferent countries. ppl who has their own life everyday...ppl who like this mod and pop in from time to time play a game. Well its nothing more then a simple internet connection between ppl..What does it mean? It means nothing. Nothing. Why? Cause if u would meet with that person in the real life without knowing that hes a guy u know from that q3 mod. Im sure he would look down on u.
just a simple example. There is a guys from Nl or Ger and there is a guy from Romania..So if they would meet they jus would look down on that ro guy..cause hes from Ro. And its pure prejudice And its the same in hungary..Ro and Hun ppl hate each other and its well known why. May be its a bit confusing but im sure some of u understand it. I mean most of relation here (example a Pl and a ger guy) are just illusion. PPl have prejudice againts everybody. They west countries just look down on us..ro, hu, Sl,Sk,Pl...and I dont like this and will never like it. Ofc they have this kind of up take that they are above us like i saw when kraster wrote that someone call him as a ro pig. Its the same in the real life. Ppl here are just illusion..give their nice face to us cause if they want play here they need keep the simple rules. Its the same in every online game. But in the real life they dont have rules to keep they dont need to show their nice face to us. They even can talk shit to us and what can we do? Go and punch them on their faces? Dont think so.
Another example. When Hun had been joining to the Europen Union ppl were scared about that we would overflow their country cause we want work there etc...but they let the arabians to their country like France where even now are too much and sometimes they just cant do anything with them(no offense againts good arabians lol).. But we who are cristians they need fear us Rofl.. Well i just wanted clear something. And thats the prejudice..againts us who were in this region after the 2nd world war. Cause we were kommunist countries(even if didnt want it)..Well its not flame or anything. Just a thought that the prejudice will be always..and i know there are real friendships between ppl here but what i say its mostly true...even if somebody think its not true..it is. Just watch,read the news.. May be offtopic sry about it..Anyway i hope some of u will comment my thought Happy

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Dont turn YOUR problems on us. I rarely raed a post which was this full of prejudices as yours. Do you really see a country as a Borg-nation. Where all ppl behave the same? Dude, no offence, but you are absolutly wrong!!!
Looks like you are full of prejudices to me, but that dont has to be our problem either. If I see a strangly person I look down at him, of course I do and Christmas is at the 30. December this year too.
I know a lot of ppl from other nations and I dont look down on them as most ppl wont do too. Look at theese kind of forums where ppl from all nations are talking with eachother. The basic sickness in the past about those prejudices has been, that nations didnt know eachother. Now we are a worldwide community and everyone gets in this forum-discussions that we are all the same, same problems, same joy etc. many ppl for example in europe dont see themselves in first order as a member of their nation, but as a member of europe.
Young ppl who still believe in those prejudices without making their own mind with the possibilities of today are really dumb nuts.
I really think, if there was and is a great time to tear down prejudices, than it is in this actual generation of people, who get, that they are a part of a world-community. And in all discussions I had in which some old guys started flaming at other nations, there were always younger persons telling them, they got absolutly no knowledge about the ppl they flame at. I think thats a good start !!

Btw, if you were right, every worldcup in soccer would be a desaster. But everytime it is great for all nations.

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Well im not young at all. 32. Anyway prejudices are still problem everywhere..unfortunatly.. (and i didnt have prejudices againts u or ur country..i have some german friend..it was just an example) I would be the happiest if our next generation would have an up-take wich is good and not like this...cause till there are old ppl who gone through over hardships, they always tell their thoughts to the younger ppl. Anyway i wish what u wrote could become true Happy Well i think im a bit pessimist Tongue

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Dont turn YOUR problems on us. I rarely raed a post which was this full of prejudices as yours. Do you really see a country as a Borg-nation. Where all ppl behave the same? Dude, no offence, but you are absolutly wrong!!!
Looks like you are full of prejudices to me, but that dont has to be our problem either. If I see a strangly person I look down at him, of course I do and Christmas is at the 30. December this year too.
I know a lot of ppl from other nations and I dont look down on them as most ppl wont do too. Look at theese kind of forums where ppl from all nations are talking with eachother. The basic sickness in the past about those prejudices has been, that nations didnt know eachother. Now we are a worldwide community and everyone gets in this forum-discussions that we are all the same, same problems, same joy etc. many ppl for example in europe dont see themselves in first order as a member of their nation, but as a member of europe.
Young ppl who still believe in those prejudices without making their own mind with the possibilities of today are really dumb nuts.
I really think, if there was and is a great time to tear down prejudices, than it is in this actual generation of people, who get, that they are a part of a world-community. And in all discussions I had in which some old guys started flaming at other nations, there were always younger persons telling them, they got absolutly no knowledge about the ppl they flame at. I think thats a good start !!

Btw, if you were right, every worldcup in soccer would be a desaster. But everytime it is great for all nations.

*ring, ring*

Earth to Mech. Earth to Mech. Come in man, wake the hell up! Laughing

Seriously - Explo only said the truth. He didn't say EVERY single man or woman is full of prejudice and hate - but the truth is, most of us are. Take the blindfolds off and look around, people hate each other because of religion (or the lack of thereof), colour of skin, nationality, height, age, hair style, the way they dress up... hell, i know a guy who got stabbed with a knife because he had white shoe-laces (sic).

Truth is, people will always find an excuse to hate someone else, instead of hating themselves for being fucked up assholes. Blame it on our nature, the way we are being raised, environment or whatever, but it's there, and it's not going anywhere.

Just my personal opinion - hating someone for his nationality is the stupidest fucking thing ever - i'd sooner hate Kraster for listening to electronic goo-goo than Skull for being German Laughing Laughing out loud Laughing

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Ok ok, explosive and Mad I got your points. But the world you describe is not the world Im going through. Maybe its the kind of thinking which colors my reality. Sorry, but this talking about everybody hates everybody is so often used by all people, that I get the impression, they need it to "survive" in this bad world. Maybe to be able to see themselves as heroes, I dont know. But what I wanted to say and what I might havent expressed well, is that I see a new kind of thinking in the young people. They dont hate other persons, because of their nation or religion or what else. Of course, I hear a lot of this in the radio too and can watch it in the TV. But thinking that this describes reality is really poor in my opinion. I like talking about people I know, because this is my kind of reality and the one I can trust in. It is no secret that tv-stations are interested in showing hate and violence, because this creates attention.
To clear the facts, I didnt like the example of explosive that player from e+ would look down on other nations. Dont get me wrong, I dont think that ppl from e+ are extraordinary smart, you can see the opposite in many posts in theese days. Laughing But with gaming and talking to other people, I think they know, that we are all the same.

To make it in one sentence: The people I know are in their behavier far away from your point of view.

Yes, lucky me Big grin