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in czech language are boys like you called "sukničkář". I dont like them. If you think that sex behind your gf is fun, you are very simple... i think you dont love your gf if youre doing this. You have your gf because you want to be someone who has a girl. Iam against that crap stuff which youre doing and i dont need to read about it so its my first and last post there :!:

actually THE word u meant is shampoons (šamponi)

not exactly. shampoons looks like a gays. But one night fucking can do not only guys who looks like a gays

You said yourself that you see sex as "subjective" a page or so back. Actually, that mentality is quite normal for someone your age. (Not being condescending, just an adult's point of view. ) That's not to say that there aren't adults that see sex as subjective, it's just that from you seeking others' opinions on the matter shows that you care. It seems to me that you will grow into becoming a faithful partner. While you are young, have fun, don't make commitments you can't keep, and wrap your willy.

Some of your points are valid, Trance. While you may have strong feelings about Psy's views on the subject, I wouldn't presume to know what he will amount to in life. He posted because he was curious and was looking to adults for advice. While I agree, his phrasing of "random bitch" was not necessarily needed and while I don't agree with the subject-matter of cheating, Psy does show glimpses of caring about doing the right thing in a relationship, i.e. honesty and not objectifying sex. It's just a controversial subject for all, because many of us have either cheated or been cheated on...So, if we can see both sides of the situation-we could argue either way. It all depends on our experiences. I am happy to see most of the posts have been siding with being honest and faithful. It's good Psy, that you aren't getting crap advice like--"Yeah go bang that random Bitch. F%$K the consiquences!"
There are always consequences to your actions...Be kind.

Completly Agree to Leukethea and Trance. Though Trance - imagine what you've might said about our world being badass some hundret years before.. Still right.

To Topic:
Well, as i'm still not even 20 i can't call myself very adult. But - without any offence, i hope your capable of it, Psy - you look like 13 on your pic. So i just wonder if you really know what you've talking about. No one has to go with me, but the story sounds more realistic if you change "women" with "little girl", "men" with "small boy" and "sex" with wtf, dunno, "kissing". Just would bet that in some years you have slightly other view on topic anyhow.
Nevertheless, you blame Alcohol for it? Hmmn, all i can say is when i'm actually drunk, i mean the way i can't really control myself, i can't fuck anymore, too. The other way round, if i can fuck, i'm not drunk. Maybe you have some greater skills
Still it's you who decides to drink and it's you who picks the girl. I know that situation, you drink, and you see lot of girls gettin beautifuller with every drink and you get horny. So you decide to hit one up. In fact no problem. But why don't you hit up for your girlfriend if you already have one? Maybe it's because of own Ego, proving yourself that you're good enough for that or that girl? If so, well, you should not have a girlfriend. In general, if you have a girlfriend you should stick with her..or it's not your girlfriend. Be honest. Btw. you may even laugh about random girl gettin banged...but you ever thought she'll have a boyfriend too?? Maybe some guy lookin like Sherlock, if you know what i mean. I just can tell you i have i friend. whom's gf actually was banged like in your case. Well, i think the guy who did it is homosexuell now.
All i can really say to you is take care - it's not as easy as it may seems now. E.g. what will you tell her if you meet her again? Probably even with yours gf in arm (not armed as you think now )

To sum up

You have open gf who don't cares - fuck around but always make good choice of girls. And don't break their hearts dude, remember their are girls with fathers like Sherlock
You have close gf who cares - don't fucking fuck other girls! Be honest and quit her in forward.
You have no gf? Whats the problem...go out and enjoy the beautiful girls. Still remember what's written at first point.

So, i hope you know my view now, at least if you really suceed in reading this novel..

Regards,
Absti

btw. Give AIDS no chance, though the group of people you may fuck is probably not very dangerous ..

btw2. hmmn, somehow your first topic sounds like the girls GET fucked. Still they must have want it too, or? So what's unfaithfull of it. I think every normal girl of 20th century knows that sex is not automatically leading into a relationship. Still it would be unfaithful to do as if you merry her..then bang her and run away. That's ofc unfaithful, but that should be clear...or?