Well - i think that being kicked sucks period.
Kicking serves no purpose, cheats and abusers need to be banned period.
In my experience the admin of all excessiveplus servers have best intentions in their hearts and really want to rid the mod of cheats, racists and other nasty elements which do creep into the game.
so strong is this feeling in the excessiveplus world that the main topic of conversation is cheating.
this imo is a war, a war against cheats and a-holes that would ruin this mod if left unchecked. in any war their are always innocent casualties this has never been avoided.
we should direct our energy and attention at finding practical working solutions.

Step 1. direct the anger and frustration at the cheats not at the people TRYING to do the right thing, even if they get it wrong once in a while.

Step 2. those of you who are unsure whether someone is a cheat or a good player - try talking instead of accusing - that is what god gave you the power of communication for - talk to these people they might be some kinda supernoob and you might even make friends. (i know most admins take this approach anyway)

Step 3. HAVE FUN.

Flame on.

i dont wanna start a shitstorm like someone else said here (respect ) but in my humble opinion i think it's clearly and undoubtly the admins or the person who has the recon pass to do whatever he pleases in his own server. If someone doesn't like that he can simply leave the server, either by his own free will or by getting kicked. In the end it's the server's loss cos if you think about it a server needs some really skilled players. If a server is just full of noobs playing with noobs then thats no fun. You get stuck at your noob level and dont have the chance to evolve. A skilled player in a game gives you some real challenge to play with. Now if you get called a cheater or whatever and you get kicked or banned from a server then it's their choice and their loss. I see it like i'm going to someone's house for a party when joining a server. If i'm scoring with all the chicks and all the other guys don't get a chance then they'll kick me out cos they own the place When i'm in my house though throwing a party i can do whatever i want and no one can tell me anything cos if someone accuses me of something i can simply kick him out cos it's my territory My point here is that when you are in some one elses server you have to take whatever he has to dish you, even if it's the worst shit ever people make choices and sometimes pay for it And since it's been discussed in this topic in my opinion fakenicking is not a good thing. Good players shouldn't have anything to hide. A "big" players shouldn't be afraid to lose cos knowing how to lose sometimes is even better than winning so these players should set the example to all us new players here in the community I hope i didn't tire you with my big post thnx for reading

how about the kitchen?

lol i dont drink so it must probably be a sex demo if so i want at least 65% of any earnings dude

totally agree with you !