This whole thing has got bigger than the sum of its parts.

un it seems to me is a very intelligent man with a free thinking mind. His use of language would not be through ignorance but quite possibly the opposite, his seeming bad taste nics I think are/where started as ironic Danish humor. I don’t think the intent initially was to offend in an absolute way.

that said !!

I think in the circumstances that some of the language that ensued was uncalled for pretty nasty and below him. Whether he/you think firefox is ” bossy” is not really relevant or that important. She is a well respected long term member of this community who has spent a large part of her time trying to help people, and mostly succeeded.
as indeed un has.
I think that with your status. maturity and intelligence un you could or should have handled the satiation a lot better, it seems this is perhaps a personal issue you have with firefox and indeed as others have suggested should have been a pm chat. We are all different people and tolerance isimportant though i suppose one could say its hard to value judge this situation.

On one hand it has been said that firefox was bossy and like a teacher, but she is doing her job as admin and is credited to do so by mow the server owner.

On the other hand Un was offensiveand agressive, I appreciate that this is relative and a point of view issue, it may well be to un that that way of talking is ok, and to me if we where down the pub it would blend with the conversation. The thing is it wasn’t it was in mixed company and very directed.

The bottom line is un did indeed break server rules, there is no real argument there. What I do know is if you didn’t have the respect you have in the community un, for that sort of aggressive language you would have got kicked and quite probably a week ban. Well you would if I was there that day.

Both these people have played as long as I can remember and I see them as bedrock members of the community. This sort of think should be rejected by us not encouraged or done . Like it or not un. Your length of time and input here, gives you a responsibility and people particular the younger players will see the way you talk in this instance and as a sign of validation to bad language and behavior.

Many people here will have firefox and un as online friends, me included. Please resolve this. My opinion is, the burden of guilt lays much more on the shoulders of 1 person here more than the other here.

Its real people behind that avatar.

I am really getting fed up with this
I would like to ask everyone to look at the screenie on the second page of this thread.
@Torzelan, I am not entirely sure what you are going on about but you or someone called me a dude or a guy, all I said was, 'well I am not a guy fo sure' then Un launched into that filth, I have 7 more screenshots all followiing on from that, which would show the filth that was coming out of his mouth.
someone mentioned that this is personnal between Un and I, well that is not the case as I have said 1 million times, I am admin and it is my duty to try to keep the server clean, it seems to me that a lot of players would be quite happy for sweet freeze to turn into a denizen for idiots, spammers, excessive campers, lamers and foul mouthed players. If I stood back and let that happen would I then become a GOOD admin?
Because if that is what makes a GOOD admin, then I must be a bad one.
So go and play on Area51 servers if you dont like it.
So let this be the end to this thread, because I am sick of all the personnall flaming aimed at me.
@Thank you to all my eplus friends that have supported me, it means a lot to me
Regards
Final thought, dont forget the 8 screenies I have

FireFox You fed up with this and I can understand that....but why not try to talk to people in a nicer way insted of be so mad ...even a badtalking player maybe have had a bad day..have a lots of problems..and go in here to try to forget about all shit in real life...and then they do something wrong say to nasty words ect...then they got throwen at them they will be kicked ...banned .....and his/her life right then be even more bad..wops and they explode and say more then they want to say.. and I am sure they feel bad about it later...because most of the people here in this community is nice people..

I can't understand why you take the admin thing so seriuse...you talk about it as it was your job.. you say it is your duty...big words i think.....it must be many better things in life to think of..then to keep a server clean from people that fights ...let PB do its job..be there play and have fun..insted of sit there and watching people and look if they do something wrong..what you dont se you dont se....but you will hear from other players that will be upset...then it is time to take care of the problem and you can do the good admin job..so for your own health..calm down..se it for what it is..a game...a game there most of the players are many years younger then you and I am and younger people talk and act in other way then we do....so no need to babysit them..hopefully theire parents take care of that..ones again FF calm down...dont look for troubles like you did in you'r last post threaten them with your 8 screenies and then a smile...is a bit to look for trouble i think

err i have an idea..y doesnt some moderator step in..draw the line on the issue (or perhaps define a grey area..lol)....put an end to the thread....have everybody shake hands...(virtually ) and lets everybody go and play some quake................:D