Questions about the sexes (Not Sex)!

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no car fixer sorry, but of course a philosopher

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Philosophize away... Tongue

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any special topics u r interested in? Laughing

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What is your take on love and relationships? Since that is what this thread is about...(most of the time) Winking

Do you believe in soulmates? Love at first site vs Lust at first site?

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mmmm, hard question. Love at first site never happened to me, so I dont know, but it happened to some of my friends, so maybe yes. I think lust at first site is normal. Happy If this wouldnt happen to me I would call for a doctor.
Soulmates? Well, if there would be no soulmates, what would it be good for to live together and try to spend the rest of life together?

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agreed, i believe in soulmates too. as for love at first sight...meeeh nah i dont think so, could be lust at first sight. love doesnt just hit you there and then Big grin

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I think you could desire, as in lust someone at first site. Love at first site is often confused with love. You cannot truly love somone until you know them and embrace all of their faults, eccentricities, joys, good and bad points. Love means not trying to change someone. It is to feel as if you are "home" when you are with the person. They make you feel like you can be yourself with no judement or criticism....

That's my opinion... Big grin

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good point Big grin love shmove, second hand emotion as tina turner would say Big grin the good stuff i so hard to find or somewhere people just dont look. i sound really cheesy atm Tongue nowadays its all about sex, people say i love you just to get girls into bed Tongue generally speaking ofcourse, bad experiences in the past Winking

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I never say "I love you" just to get girls into bed... Winking

Tina Turner, Tina? hehe that's cute Big grin I haven't heard that song in forever...

I know what you mean about people just wanting sex. I think there is a maturity that is reached where sex is great and all, but we all need some substance to our relationships to keep them together. There has to be a soul connection--a gel of spirits....or it won't last.

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well i dont know if it counts but as soon as i saw my last ex i knew we were gonna be together and she knew it too even if she had a boyfriend at that time. does it count? :scratch: