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Questions about the sexes (Not Sex)!
28. December 2005 - 5:17
Ok spider, I got off your thread! 
Weeble, Heroin, and anyone else interested , let's start a thread about relationships. Boy/Girl questions. Anything you like. Sound good?
28. December 2005 - 7:31
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I'm on it FULL 
any of the few girls wanna ask questions or even any of the guys i'm here with lots of free time and lots of will to answer ANY kind of questions concerning both sexes
28. December 2005 - 8:40
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Hopefully Heroin will join us in this endeavor! She will have some good insight. Anyone else who cares to start with some questions, please do. 
28. December 2005 - 9:26
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ok let me get the ball rolling,
theres a girl that broke up with me, after a while we get back together and i freak out and break it off to cool down, in the time after she brakes it off i sleep with someone. so why when last night we talked did she freak at me?
i mean she was the one who started this and i forgave her 
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28. December 2005 - 14:39
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ok to see if i understood what you said, you two we're in a relationship. then she breaks up with you and during the break up time u sleep with someone else, then you get back together and you freak out? im confused boohoo 
28. December 2005 - 15:42
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Yes, Heroin. You have it right, I beleive. 
Dark I think the circumstances of the breakup are important. You said that there was a girl that broke up with you. I understand that. You will have to define what you mean by "freaked out..." and broke up with her.
During the relationship when she broke up with you. You slept with someone else and then got back together with her?
If i understand this correctly it sounds like you "freaked out" on her for doing the same thing? (sleeping with someone else?)
If this is the case, in my womanly opinion...I think there is a lot of resentment in this relationship. Meaning that if you both have slept with other people after breaking up, then you may both have some anger toward each other for doing that.
If you two were on "a break," then who you have sex with shouldn't matter. Nor should it with her. If, either of you have been unfaithful in the relationship, then that is an issue that causes both parties to become untrusting.
Dark please clarify, if I have any of this wrong....
28. December 2005 - 18:09
#7
Questions about the sexes (Not Sex)!
wrote:ok let me get the ball rolling,
theres a girl that broke up with me, after a while we get back together and i freak out and break it off to cool down, in the time after she brakes it off i sleep with someone. so why when last night we talked did she freak at me?
i mean she was the one who started this and i forgave her
OK then time for my manly opinion on this. Dark my friend first of all IMHO its not good hooking up with the same person you had some time ago only if its not for serious. I would NEVER for example hook up with 99% of my exes Secondly from what you say i understand that you freaked out about the whole being tied down in a relationship thing so thats why you wanted to cool down. Which is very natural IMHO. Now if i got it right and she slept with someone so in revenge you slept with someone too thinking that she cant say anything since you already forgiven her than thats not good my friend. I know you dont have a problem scoring with chicks so if you wanted to just fuf around then you could tell her that "hey you know i dont like this whole relationship thing, lets just be friends or even fuck buddies so we can both be happy with whoever we want" and be on the straight side this way you could have her and whoever else you wanted now you're in a bad situation cos if you stay together you're just gonna both fuf around to get at each other and just make things worse. My opinion, tell her what i told you to tell now thats early and get things straight. if you dont then i thing this thread will be busy
28. December 2005 - 18:27
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she broke it off for some reasons, mainly we didnt see each other alot, then i slept with someone, then we got back together and i freaked out because i was scared she would hurt me again, then we talked about getting back for good but she asked if i had slept with someone and i said yes, so now im being ignored, even though at the time she wanted nothing to do with me
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28. December 2005 - 18:55
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Dark, to put this bluntly and honestly. Move on. Find someone that you can be honest with and that will be honest with you. Communication is key in any relationship. Humor goes a long way, as well. It is an excellent tool for healing and communicating. There are tons of girls out there. People play a lot of games in relationships. There are many that don't. Write down everything you want in a mate and what you don't want. Then, don't settle for anyting less!
I can understand if you still have feelings for this girl. However, the relationship seems to be strained. Best to leave this one in the past, and move on, in my humble opinion.
28. December 2005 - 19:02
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wrote:Dark, to put this bluntly and honestly. Move on. Find someone that you can be honest with and that will be honest with you. Communication is key in any relationship. Humor goes a long way, as well. It is an excellent tool for healing and communicating. There are tons of girls out there.
I can understand if you still have feelings for this girl. However, the relationship seems to be strained. Best to leave this one in the past, and move on, in my humble opinion.
couldnt have said it better my self move on man cos as i can see you are emotionally connected to this chick but i'm not sure if its equally balanced on both sides and that could cause you a lot of hurt my friend which is NOOOOT good trust me i been through that kind of shit i know. move on my man. i bet theres a lot of chicks that would love the shit out of you out there
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