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ok i didn't really read the all the other posts when i wrote that above.

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Exaaaaaaaaaaactly what's wrong with these forums. Few people actually "read" what's going on. Most read the one-liners only and then act like they know wtf is going on. Conclusion: I don't even bother trying anymore. Even that very small thing arguing with such people does to my nerves, it's not worth it, really.

It is painfully obvious to me that people who claim the mods are "tight" haven't been in other communities. One rule broken, one warning. Second time, you are out.-

Concerning dak, he "turned" pretty suddenly so it's very possible something nasty happened in his life.

ps1: @hella, i didn't quote you for something personal (that's why the "---") is there

ps2: Not locking threads moved to trashcan (except if they really get out of hand) is an idea if people actually have a problem with threads moving there too fast or with a weak reason

ps3: Noname mods is a good idea too, i saw on other communities. "E+mod1, E+mod2, E+mod3 etc). But it's a tiny community and it would lame to "shuffle" the cards now

hehe no prob...i admit i didn't read fully...just went on what i thought the floe of the thread was.... ma baad. normally though i do read fully through..i was tired. but i made up for it. by editing my post.

Easy is the one who says how things are being done here, so, if anyone thinks current system is not working properly, that it's being abused etc, feel free to take the matter straight to him. Be sure to take proofs of exactly why and how the current system is failing, and some convincing arguments why yours is better. It's as simple as that.

And Wax, golden words. I've taken the job to help out the community, i had lots of free time, and lots of enthusiasm. Moderating these forums really opened my eyes about some people. About what some people are behind their masks.

I like to think that the least i can expect for spending my free time to keep this house clean is some degree of respect, even from people who may not like me as a person. If i got a penny for every time i got called a faggot, fucker, asshole, idiot etc because of thread lockage, trashing, giving warnings, i'd have been a second Bill Gates by now.

Well i made my job i feel that my unique thing that i can do is to make my suggestions and thats all, my objetives dont live here.

Evererybody is special just for the fact that is alive and life is a miracle.

Wax i dont think u may got confused or feel that ppl have badly valued ur work here, all the systems can have always improvements and retro feeding by all the members and this is not just because somthing is wrong but because all the live systems must keep changing if want to live. Please dont misunderstad me or feel ofended just because a suggestion, think that more ppl here wants to be part and cooperate.

There are some points that i think is neccesary to finish here :

1.- We need to change the way that mods and ppl react when some member of this community is feeling or telling that somthing is wrong like now dakarin. in the last 9-8 months i have see here more and more cases like this and its imporant to take care of this. Independently if she/he is using the best way to solve the problem its important to make somthing and try always to find the best solution.

2.- about the suggestion by Equi for the trashcan im waiting some opinions from mods about it. And i make another two more suggestion to this:
there are some rules for all users here that if u dont folow u know ur comments can go directly to the trash.. ok, i I think by now there are not some rules to moderate the way that comments are trashed so i will give 2 things that are important to take care to avoid problems with the ppl who have trashed stuff:
2.1 If by rules the coments are out of context just trash it but i dont think its fair that mods can add the last replay with his personal comments about, because just they can write.
2.1 to avoid futures problems or annoying members, when the treath dont have a subject please Dont use his personal comments as subjet, less still if the comments are ironic or directly to something , use subjet just to include the reason or rule that apply in this case and becasue the comments are in the trash. I dont think this kind of subject is correct :
"hi guys, i'm an angry kid"

the last point its about dakarin, is sad to let him just go, please try to talk with him and found a middle situation where both sides can feel good, maybe trough pm, msn, icq, etc. but I want to request to all mods to not let go ppl in an angry way, is not good, after all we all are ppl here and spects somnthig from this community.

Well ppl this are my 2 cents (read this in another post and i think this is an expression to say this is my little help, i hope )

Greetings

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the last point its about dakarin, is sad to let him just go, please try to talk with him and found a middle situation where both sides can feel good, maybe trough pm, msn, icq, etc. but I want to request to all mods to not let go ppl in an angry way, is not good, after all we all are ppl here and spects somnthig from this community.

Tried that last week, i/we care about such situations believe it or not

And no i didn’t take anything personally. its just I don’t think the mod team is "broke" in any way so no fix is needed, and I don’t think it operates to a degree that necessitates change, change is not always the answer in life.

Stability and familiarity can have great value is some things.

Ofc i belive u, u did the same with me in another times, problem is he looks a bit frustrated in the post.

please can u make ur cooments about Equi suggestion and my 2 adds to him original suggestion?

Greetings

Ps. nothing is perfect but perfectable , we cant give up in the middle.

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As for Equis suggestion, i don't get it. You guys want an "Uncensored, nearly unmoderated Off-topic" sub-forum?

that would be damn cool. I feel flames!