Questions about the sexes (Not Sex)!

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Dark, I can't tell you what to do. If you want to be in the relationship, be in it. Big grin Moving on is an emotional process for either the person ending the relationship, or the person that still wants to be in it. Likewise, if both would like to be in the relationship; it can be hard work and occasionaly, tears. Every relationship is work, from parent, to friend, to lover.

Glad you got your room straighted Big grin

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DARK wrote:

well i find moving on hard, she cries when we talk, if thats not evidence she feels the same then what is,

on a brighter note i got so annoyed with this being on my mind i spent 5 hours cleaning my room and re arranging everything.

then we talked, and things were better, se also liked my gift, well, i couldnt get flowers so i took a picture and sent it via text msg, Laughing

she cried at that too

Manly reply: girls cry often my friend. you have to just try and understand if those tears are really true Happy

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shes a strong girl, with a good upbringing, the kind where crying in front of someone is rude or something, and she has cried to me, so i know its not just a girlie reaction, or an attempt for sympathy...

i really cant say what i want, i guess its down to when she isnt so mad that i slept with someone even though at the time she had broken up with me and wanted nothing to do with me, damn she has made me feel like i have cheated on her pfft...

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sorry to jump a lil off topic, but this by far and away the scariest e+ thread I have ever seen. Shock

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@wax - agree

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its a nice way for me to let off steam though Happy

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DARK wrote:

shes a strong girl, with a good upbringing, the kind where crying in front of someone is rude or something, and she has cried to me, so i know its not just a girlie reaction, or an attempt for sympathy...

i really cant say what i want, i guess its down to when she isnt so mad that i slept with someone even though at the time she had broken up with me and wanted nothing to do with me, damn she has made me feel like i have cheated on her pfft...

well darko (i dont even know where that came from but anyways Tongue) if she even cried to show you how upset she got then it really means there is something there. and i know that if a chick is being jealous then it means she really cares. i know that the line between caring for someone and being jealous is a very thick one, but my instinct tells me that she will come to you sooner that you think. now the difficult thing to say is when and under what circumstances. try to contact her, maybe she's trying to see if you do the first step. and another difficult thing is WHEN will she decide... Its a thin situation here cos you cant actually sit on your ass and just wait when is she gonna decide but on the other hand you cant actually run around fluffing every girl that looks good in your eyes cos that may cause more problems and just push her away even more. my advice? what i would do? depending on how much i wanna be with her, i would try to contact her, apologise for what i did (even if i shouldnt) and just wait. if i waited for more time than i should or i could then i would move on and do my best to forget her. there is a greek saying my friend which says "Love can only be cured with Love" Happy hope we help

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most women are hoes

most men are pigs

don't get married before 40-45 even 50+

live life to the max before getting married and shag everything u get your hands on!

you will die happy.

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well i have contacted her alot, i think she is trying to test my patients, and see if i give up after a while

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I don't think this thread is scarey. I think it is cool to have something that is not all about Quake. Big grin
Weebl, I prefer my mantra: "Booze cures Love..." ahh, but I am kidding.

Darko, only you can decide how long you are willing to wait for this girl. The only person that you have control over is yourself. If you have any confusion about what is going on with her. Ask. If she has any respect for you or the relationship. She will be honest with you.